Collaborative Divorce Arizona: Can I Do This?
Posted by RatZone on 02/24/09 in Business
Last week, my wife and I agreed to a hire a collaborative divorce Arizona professional to help us through our very difficult divorce. She and I thought this would be simple, that somehow this person could help us make decisions. However, it is so hard and I am not sure how to move forward with the process of divorce. In fact, even with an individual like this at our side to help out, I am wondering if I will be able to find some solution that is right for both of our goals. If you are in this situation, were you just cannot make decisions, what do you do?
When we filed divorce Arizona attorneys told us that we needed to talk about what would happen to our property and investments. That is fine and we are not having that much difficulty on those topics. The problem has to do with our children. I have lived with my children since they were born and I do not want to lose that every day hug and smile. At the same time, how can I force my wife to go through that? I hope that we can find a solution for divorce without lawyers Scottsdale needing hired.
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Gino | Feb 24, 2009 | Reply
When my ex and I went through the divorce process we also had major issues that couldn’t be decided. Decisions are tough. Divorce adds pressures we are not trained to deal with. There is no easy answer.
Terrance | Feb 24, 2009 | Reply
When a couple calls it quits there is much more involved than who gets the cat and who keeps the cd’s. The hurt feelings are a big part as well and that is why mediation works best. That third party who is able to iron out some of the rough spots makes the process a little bit easier.
Grant Turner | Feb 24, 2009 | Reply
If you ever want to find out all the little things that upset your spouse, go thru a divorce. If mediation can prevent me hearing about how I always folded towels the wrong way before rehanging it I am ALL of it. Mediation sounds great to me.
Devon | Feb 24, 2009 | Reply
The children issue is the hardest to deal with. The love of a father for his children seems to be very underrated when it comes to divorce and if a mediation service can help it seems much, much better than leaving it up to a judge. Don’t they all say the children need to be with their mother?
Barry | Feb 24, 2009 | Reply
That is the experience I had as well. Our mediator was fantastic but there were just somethings that could not be decided between the three of us and had to be settled in court. Under the right circumstances Mediation is ideal.